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Wellness Is A Mindset! Relationships And The Conflict Mindset

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Relationship Goals Relationships are integral to humanity. No one exists without it. We are all tied, in one way or the other, in a relationship. And in any relationship, there exists conflict. At often times conflict becomes one of our life's greatest nemeses. But we do have power over our own reactions towards conflicting situations. Are we willing to exercise that power? That is a different matter that may need resolve. You know what they say, "birds of the same feathers flock together". What if two same-feathered birds end up wringing each others' necks in due course because of some misunderstanding? Ok, that is pretty extreme. Let's try another example - gentler. What if two same-feathered birds end up not speaking to each other in due course because of a big misunderstanding? And then the other says things about the other and vice versa, and the situation worsens upon being confronted because irretrievable words have already been spoken against...

Self Destruction! A Stone Throw Away.

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Self Destruction "Comparison is an act of violence against the self." - Iyanla Vanzant We hear voices in our head a million times. The voices are our attitude towards ourselves. The voices are our perception towards others. The action that proceeds the voices are our chosen reactions. Chances are, we destroy elements in the process. Relationships are too many an example of what commonly suffer from our choice to react toward negative, unrelenting voices. On the other hand, self also becomes the primary victim. A person's overall wellness also include mental and behavioural soundness. In today's world of perfectionism, stress related self-destruct takes a big spot on life's stages especially when they are not controlled and when one loses grip of reality versus idealism. Self-destruct is also defined as "to make yourself fail." How could anyone want to fail, let alone make one's self fail, lest it be for a very compelling, negative reas...

Dreams! The Pursuit Of Happiness.

Hey guys!. I do hope you get motivated with this short article. I never wanted a dream so bad but this made me cry. I seriously thought I faced the end of my life when things finally started looking like the end. I thought I died. There are many things to pursue in this world. But the things that are hardest to attain become possible to you when someone finally gets it - naturally. I tapped into God's best. But I am just scratching the surface. Loving what you do is what matters. Reasons uncover purpose. It is what makes someone wake up every morning with intention. And another day is fulfilled. The daily grind can take its course. But it cannot take away reason. Your reason takes you to another dimension. It takes you forward. My reasons are simple. To give glory to God, to honor my parents, support my siblings and make them happy. What I do in my life surrounds these reasons. As long as I achieve them daily, I am content. I am complete. People have big wants and big...

Depression! Crawling Out From Her Shackles.

So this is an article I found in a friend's blog...Not going change many wordings...And am going to give a direct link.. Deep thoughts.. 4:45am. I am super high and exploring Indie summer songs and autoplay decides to bless me with a song I'm later to fall in love with. Ugly Heart by disbanded girl group G.R.L. 0.02 seconds into the song and my friend starts telling me the story of one of the band members Simone Battle. As inquisitive and obsessed with things as I am, my friend's story isn't enough for me so I go in search of articles about her and I read the most heartbreaking thing that became the inspiration for my first blog post. She killed herself. Found dead in her bedroom closet. She hung herself due to depression she had been dealing with for months. Depression isn't something to joke around with, it has beenthe cause of many deaths in the past year and the more I learn about suicide stories caused by depression, I thin...

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Wildlife! Amazing..A Woodpecker Pictured With A Weasel On It's Back

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Hi guys..So I came across this(not new sha) but i figure some people are in my category which hasn't seen this before. Read on! A remarkable photo has captured a weasel on a woodpecker’s back as the bird flies through the air. The photographer, Martin Le-May from Essex, said he “feared the worst” for the green bird after hearing “distressed squawking” during its struggle with the mammal at Hornchurch Country Park. After Le-May managed to capture the incredible image – which has become a hit on Twitter since it was taken earlier – the creature managed to escape with its life. A close up of the image shows the woodpecker in clear distress. Credit: Martin Le-May Slightly blurred images also captured the rest of the battle. The weasel clings to the bird’s back. Credit: Martin Le-May The bird then takes flight in an attempt to escape attack. Credit: Martin Le-May Describing the events to ITV News, Le-May said he was taking a walk with his wife when the battle ...

momentum. The Race Against Resistance

"The path of least resistance leads to crooked rivers and crooked men."                       -- Henry David Thoreau I have a reputation. All of my life I've been known in my circles as "the one with the willpower." "I wish I had your discipline," they'd say. I'm the guy that has always risen early. Army PT, work, whatever. Set your clock to it. I'm the guy who stops after  one  scoop of ice cream. "I just wanted the taste. I've had enough." I don't miss workouts. I just don't. I may have to do it later or earlier than planned. I may have to do it at home instead of in class. But I do it. And for over 3 years now, I've written almost every day. My secret? I take  Resistance  with me wherever I go. Well, more like she follows me. I've tried to shake her, but she's always there. But I  know  she's there, and always will be, so I p...